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stowks

This should not be hidden in the comments

dissociativedoe

sending love out tonight to everyone who is progressively losing their abilities, whether that's movement, ability to walk, eyesight, or hearing.

it's hard to come to terms with the fact that you can't do things that you used to be able to do. I'll be honest, it feels like you're losing control of your life. it can feel very isolating and hopeless. its scary and overwhelming, and it's so hard to deal with.

you are not less than just because you can do less. im proud of you for still being here, and i wish you ease with adjusting to new ways of life. please take care of yourself, i love you.

xxkukolkaxx-deactivated20211129

Me and gym family

crazy-brazilian

kings

blurrymango

Remove the first and last letter of your name. Let's see how cool is your new name.

Ranci.

one-time-i-dreamt

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Ate

heystephen

this site makes a poem out of your birth chart and it’s so cool

funny-tik-toks

mothmanismyuncle

THE WIND UP

IT DROPS DOWN, LINES IT UP, AND HAULS BACK AND *tiny smork noise*

abc-mulan

[Video description: a bald person is sitting and scrolling on their phone. Above them, a plunger is being lowered with fishing line. The plunger slowly drops down, lines up with the bald person’s head. The plunger is raised again before being dropped quickly onto the bald person’s head, making a small suction noise. The bald person runs upstairs with the plunger still on their head and runs to the person who dropped the plunger. End description]

everythingfox

Building a home for a toadlet

(via)

lowendfreak

NOTHING will prepare u for how tiny this guy is

derinthescarletpescatarian

Me watching the prep: That’s gonna be WAY too small for him to live in!

Me seeing the amphibian: Objection withdrawn.

thesaltofcarthage

thank god, it’s not a chocolate guy video

visualshock

bakwaaas

You gotta understand that some people never really grow. They never learn their lesson. They never recognise their mistakes, they never acknowledge their faults, they never admit they were in the wrong. You will never receive an apology from them, and you will never see their behaviour change.

lilybee

if you’re in the notes saying “this is wrong and cruel because everyone is capable of growth” you’re not understanding the post.

yes, everyone is CAPABLE of growth and change. everyone has the RIGHT to growth and change. but no, not everyone will CHOOSE growth and change. some people are not interested in and cannot be made interested in self-improvement or self-reflection. some people will go their entire lives refusing to admit they might be wrong or examine their own behaviors. some people will never, ever accept responsibility for the effects they have on people and the world around them. humans are varied; some are just always gonna be like this.

it is VITAL to understand this if you’re the kind of person who tends to pour energy into helping others, especially if there are already people knowingly hurting you who consistently show absolutely no interest in changing that behavior. you can’t forcibly make them want to change who they are. you aren’t going to find a way to convince them to suddenly care that their behavior is hurting someone.

the motivation to change and grow comes from within. others may inspire us, but WE have to decide we want to be better and work towards that. until they decide that for themselves, nobody else can do it for them. and they might never. people are mortal. we are a finite series of choices. it is entirely possible to make mostly selfish ones.

everyone CAN grow, but not everyone will. not everyone wants to, and nobody can force the desire to grow as a person on someone else.

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